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जो बीत चुका है, उससे बेहतर आना अभी बाकी है। "You just keep pushing, you just keep pushing. I've made every  mistake that could be made. But I just kept pushing" - Rene Descartes प्रसिद्ध फ्रेंच दार्शनिक रेने देकार्त के उपरोक्त उद्धरण पर विचार करें। आप कितनी बार सोचते हैं कि आपने जीवन को गड़बड़ कर दिया है। अगर यह और ऐसा नहीं होता तो मेरा जीवन बहुत अच्छा होता। आपने कितनी बार अपनी गलतियों पर पछतावा किया है। आप कितनी बार अप्रिय स्थितियों के बारे में शिकायत करते हैं कि अगर मेरे साथ ऐसा नहीं हुआ है तो मैं एक मजेदार जीवन बिता रहा होता। लेकिन क्या आप कभी इस बात पर विचार करते हैं कि ऐसे तर्कों के नकारात्मक परिणाम क्या हैं। यह आपको परेशान, उदास महसूस कराता है और यह पर्याप्त मात्रा में चिंता पैदा करता है जो आपको और अधिक नकारात्मक रूप से ट्रिगर करने और आपके जीवन को बदतर बनाने के लिए पर्याप्त है। जो कुछ भी हुआ है वह पहले ही हो चुका है और किसी भी तरह की चिंता से नहीं बदला जा सकता है। अतीत पर दिमाग खर्च करने के बजाय वर्तमान के लिए जीना सीखें जो भविष्य को प्रभावित कर सकता है।...
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What is yet to come is better than what has passed. "You just keep pushing, you just keep pushing. I've made every  mistake that could be made. But I just kept pushing" - Rene Descartes Consider the above quote of the famous French philosopher Rene Descartes. How often you think that you've had a messed up life. If this and this wouldn't have happened then my life would have been great. How many times you've indulged in regretting on your mistakes. How often you complaint about unpleasant situations that if such and such haven't happened to me then I will be having a fun life. But do you ever consider what are the negative consequences of such arguments. It makes you feel upset, depressed and it creates ample amount of anxiety that is enough to trigger you more negatively and make your life worse. Crying over the split milk is of no use. Whatever has happened has already happened and cannot be changed by any amount of worrying. Instead of dyin...

[UPDATED] See-Saw To See-Show

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From "See-saw" to "See-show " A craze of bragging and begging attention In the childhood we used to play the game seesaw. But now we are grown up and this See-saw no more excites us. So we have built a new game that's called see show. The game of seesaw has given us a lot of joy and we have had good memories of it. But the game of See-show is different and this one is proving to be a contagious stress developer. In the seesaw people use their weight to play safely and in see-show they use their ego to play safely. You might be thinking what exactly see-show is.  See-show is a game in which a person is literally says to it's acquaintance and society SEE- SHOW simultaneously. Let me make it more clear . SEE i got a good job. SHOW which job you've got? SEE i have lots of friends SHOW how many friends you have? SEE i am making so much money SHOW how much money you make? SEE I'm so beautiful SHOW how beautiful you are? SEE I'm...