Why the idea of self growth is scary!
What is self growth? To develop one's full potential. What are your potential? You need to try a lot of different things to be able to know that. But as you wish to try a lot of different things what stops you? Your 'self'. Why? Because trying out new things risk your already established identity. Our identity forms with what we think and do. If we choose to think differently or do different things then the identity runs a risk of getting lost or replaced by another identity. With a lot of hard work, compromises, and not to mention the fake expressions, we convinced others to like our this identity and what would happen if this is lost!? Therefore once a good identity is formed it is always risky to change it. But we are not that simple beings. We often are triggered by our dreams, or conscience which force us to think in the direction of self improvement. There is a sense within like a which always inform us about things which can be better within and around us. But it n...